Getting Rich and Losing Friends

One of the hardest things about expanding into the dolphin abundance timeline is the confrontation that it creates with your current reality.

Every moment you are vibrating on a frequency that is radiating out of your personal vortex into the world. This vortex creates your reality. It attracts people, opportunities, and situations to you.

This idea is very controversial. Understanding that we create our own realities is controversial because a lot of us have very negative realities and it is unhelpful to blame people for their victimhood. It is not someone’s fault that they are attracting negative experiences, but we all have the power each day to shift our energy and change our lives. To understand why bad things happen to us, we must look back at childhood.

Our most influential programming comes from childhood. Our parents and our society program us to operate on a certain frequency. If you had parents who only knew how to operate on a negative frequency, it is extremely likely that you too will only know how to operate on a negative frequency. If you were programmed with traumatic events, it can take incredible effort and dedication to lovingly integrate those experiences so that you can raise your vibration to a point that you can attract positive experiences.

As you integrate trauma and transcend vibrational scales, you then have the ability to jump timelines. Once you become aware of your ability to shift your energy, you can then take massive leaps in frequency expression. These massive leaps shift your reality dramatically and quickly. Certain aspects of your reality might shift entirely while other aspects stay the same.

For instance, you might get a financial opportunity that opens you up to a lot more money than you were making before. But just because you have more money, doesn’t mean your housing situation changes immediately. Leases and mortgages are usually long term agreements, and a lot can happen in that time! Additionally, friends, lovers, and family often stay the same while we ascend energetically, but that doesn’t mean that their frequency has also shifted.

As you expand your energy field you will find that you are in direct conflict with your old surroundings. You may be forced to cut ties with toxic or low vibrational people, change your living situation dramatically and quickly, end relationships, leave jobs, etc. Expansion isn’t easy, it’s one big tower moment!

One of the most difficult parts of expansion is leaving people you love “behind” in your old vibration. Most people are not capable of rapid expansion, and even if they are capable, they do not desire it because it is too intense. It is really hardcore to jump into the dolphin abundance timeline! So as you shift your vibration, you will find that you are triggering the heck out of people, and your old relationships will start to have dramatic conflict.

This conflict is due to the fact that you are acting as a lighthouse for expansion. Your healing is showing other people the way. When they see you, they also feel called, on some level, to expand their energy. But expansion is terrifying. It’s disruptive and life changing. It’s a giant ego death and it is the end of all that you previously knew. So, most people are not interested in expanding. When you shine your light, you show them the path, and not everyone is ready for that path.

Do you think most people will say, “Wow, I am so happy for you but your expansion is making me feel unsafe and I need some space from you to rebalance my nervous system?” Ha! No. They will not be so self aware. Instead, they will simply act differently toward you. They might try to bring you down. They might pick at your insecurities or belittle your accomplishments. They might ghost you, or blame you for everything bad that happens. They might start rumors. They might try to get you in trouble. They might become competitive in ways that really don’t matter. They might seem simultaneously attracted and repulsed by you and act warm and loving and then cold and mean when they are triggered.

It’s very painful to see people who used to be your comrades turn against you. It’s even more painful to realize they were never actually very good friends all along, but from your new perspective, you can see their cruel (unhealed) behavior. As you grow, you will absolutely trigger the people around you and it is not your responsibility to try to get everyone on the same page as you. If you try, it will be an exhausting, mostly losing game.

Some people will come with you and some people will get left behind. Some people will expand but in an entirely different direction than you! Remeber, just because someone is triggered initially doesn’t mean they aren’t capable of expanding. You will see that certain people will expand to the degree that they can support you and become one of your cheerleaders, if not meet you on your path.

During your expansion, you will probably need to spend a lot of time alone. You may be called to keep to yourself and not talk about the blessings that you are experiencing because you can see that they trigger people too much. This period of isolation is lonely, but it is a blessing in disguise because it allows you to really feel into your own energy and not let other people dictate your future. It will allow you to become a master of your reality and cultivate a pure vision for what you want and who you want to become. As you withdrawal into yourself, you can watch the people around you and how they are acting. You will clearly see opportunities where you can build the people around you up, when they are open to it. Some people will set their own boundaries, and it will be up to you to let them leave and respect that. Additionally, you will clearly see opportunities to set boundaries with people who are intent on your destruction or the destruction of your relationship.

When setting boundaries with people, remember that we are living in miraculous times. Just because someone is not ready to hold space for your expansion energy right now doesn’t mean the same thing for the future. Your expansion has planted a seed in their reality, and as they go through their own spiritual growth, you might be shocked to find that some of your biggest haters or trolls later turn into your biggest supporters.

Hold space and hold boundaries with UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. Do what you can to see the higher spirit of the person. Do what you can to see their scared child self. Have patience for them, because there is no rush. Know that how they are reacting is their own internal process and know it’s a reflection of their own path. It is not a reflection on your self worth or what you deserve. Let them go with love and have no attachment for their behavior either in the present or the future.

Non-attachment is the key to expanding your reality rapidly. Know that the future will be better than you can imagine but do not get stuck on the How, Why, or Who.

As you set these boundaries and get comfortable with the peaceful, rich, loneliness of isolation, you will start to clear your solar plexus and connect more to your own childlike energy. You will tune more in with the energy of play (dolphins!) and you will begin to radiate out a powerful, peaceful, loving energy. This energy will attract a new group of people to you who are deeply aligned with who you really are.

Your new tribe will be like angels in your life and they will be the best friends and lovers you have ever had. They will celebrate your wins and teach you how to expand beyond any limitations you continue to hold. If you’re lucky, you will find that they trigger you into growth that is so rapid that it is occasionally uncomfortable!

As you get rich, you may lose friends, but it won’t be forever. It is an alignment process for the greater expansion of your life into the life that you were always meant to live.