Why is it taking so long?
Manifestation is a science, and by that I mean you can apply the same techniques and get repeatable results. As we get better and better at understanding and implementing these techniques, we will have more control over the outcome and results of our efforts.
Knowing this, it can really drive a person to the brink of madness when they are doing everything “right” and their manifestations still aren’t coming in. Especially if you’re a starseed or other advanced consciousness and you’re not used to the dense vibration of the Earth plane.
The next few posts in this blog will be about just this! We’re starting off strong with the idea of Masculine/ Feminine Imbalance.
The power of creation takes an equal measure of both masculine and feminine energies to bring it to life. You have these polarities inside of yourself and if they’re off balance, you won’t be able to easily birth your desires into this realm energetically speaking.
Ask yourself - are you spending all day praying and trusting? Are you laying around waiting for something to happen? Are you waiting for a magical phone call or invitation to make your dreams come true? Is your energy really, really, really aligned but nothing is happening yet? Do the days slip by in a dreamy haze?
If so, you’re probably rooted very firmly in your yin/feminine energy and you could use some yang/masculine energy to activate.
On the other hand, are you focusing all your effort on trying everything you possibly can? Are you stressed out? Is your calendar full? Do you have multiple projects or jobs you’re trying to make happen at once? Do you end your days having done a million things with a million more to do?
If so, you’re in your masculine and you can call the softer side of life in to balance yourself out.
We learn these traits from our parents and if we’ve only ever used one way, we think that is the way that works. It’s hard to trust the other side of yourself if you’ve lived in imbalance, especially if other members of your family have also lived in that imbalance.
The truth is, yes, you CAN manifest just from one side of this duality, but it is slow and disempowering compared to the activation of balance between both sides. If you aren’t completely balanced within your receiving (feminine) and doing (masculine) states, you will have trouble harnessing the power of creation and you may just be manifesting from a much weakened place.
To balance these energies, hold space for them in your mind:
Check in with the receiving/entitled side of yourself. Ask them what they want and what they would have you do with your time. Then, check in with the doing/active side of yourself. Ask them what they would have you do with your time and what they want. Are these two at odds with one another? Hold space for these two sides to connect, communicate, and learn how to trust one another.
Take contrary action. If you feel like you don’t have time to rest, rest. If you feel like you don’t know what to do with yourself, find something to do with yourself. Push yourself into the action that doesn’t feel like the natural one. If you want to double down in work, take a break. If another day has gone by and you don’t know how, make a list and get it done!
Every day check in with these two parts. It takes time to build a loving, committed relationship between a masculine and feminine energy and that’s exactly what you’re doing. These two have unique gifts and talents that you need to manifest your desires.
When you are truly balanced in this way, you will be taking aligned action in your life. This action will feel exciting, and maybe even a little scary or hard at times, but the result will always be one of effortless abundance. If it’s not effortless abundance, these parts will each draw out their protector sides and reject it. There will be space for exploring new things, and also time to meditate, rest, and practice ceremonial magic.
If you have an imbalance between your masculine and feminine aspects, don’t worry, it’s totally normal. Our society really pushes us to be a certain way and it’s easy to get lost in acceptance of it or rightful rebellion.
If you need help balancing these energies, working with a coach like me can really help! Set up a free call with me to see if Create Your Dream Life coaching is right for you.
Otherwise, I’ll see you next time for another reason why your manifestations might not be coming in as fast as you hope.
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